How is man supposed to understand the feeling to … fall in love?

There is no explanation of what you feel, what you want the most, how do you behave. Everyone say that the feeling is individual and in witch one of us the signs of falling in love are different. Ok, if we can define the level of our feelings we’ve reached we are one third to the path of falling in love.

The next hard part is to understand what the so called partner is feeling. The person next to us would also have feelings. In the worst scenario he won’t have interest in us, but we are talking about love and let’s not be such pessimistic. So the person can have purely sexual attraction, some week interest of our personality, a bit stronger attraction and why not love. How nice it would be to feel incinerational and „all mighty” love. Isn’t all who believe in it want to find his other half. He or She will feel the need to always be with us, to call every free minute in our absence. Not be able to go to sleep without calling to say “good night” or “sweet dreams”. He will want to be snuggled with you for all eternity and no need for the morning come and to brake the love barrier. The moment you know “your half” is feeling the same strong and honest emotions as yours, you’ve reached the second third.

Witch is the step needed for reaching the desired destination? In my opinion is one of the hardest, because the luck and destiny will match you up with the right person, but will you be able to keep him? Love does not help for the full understanding with your love partner in real life, it lays the foundation and the rest is in your hands. If you are a person who is willing to make compromises and bend his own wishes it does not guarantee – FOR GOD’S STAKE IT DOES NOT GUARANTEE – happiness in the relationship. The person next to you may be satisfied, but your happiness will disappear in the moment you have crossed the border between “have it your way” and “I will back down not to hurt him”. To stand beside you desires is of great meaning for own happiness. If the golden middle is found, when you can say what the person next to you wants, the moment has came when you can say you have the last third.
The one whole added together from all the little and smallest parts will be the most sweet thing you will ever taste. Or it will bring you little peace of nirvana and for you this will be the earth heaven.

I speak as I’m a person who is been throw all of these parts of falling in love and is in love, but I am a ordinary and lonely girl who is dreaming for the knight in shiny armor and in the most cases only the knight comes and he is not shiny as he looks like. I don’t say that my thoughts are most accurate, but think about it, there might be something true about all of this.

If for you love is a more easier test I am glad for you.

And remember that “To love and to be loved in return” is the greatest happiness in the world.